It’s Self love month and Self-love is a vital part of life. It can be difficult to feel good about ourselves, especially in these hard times but it is so important. Many people struggle with narcissism, which is characterized by an excessive love for oneself.
However, there are key differences between narcissism and healthy self-love that should be noted.
Self-Love
Loving yourself means maintaining conscious awareness of who you are and what lies within you. It means accepting yourself the way you are. Self-love is when a person cares for themselves while keeping others in mind. When you love someone, you accept them for who they are. You do not depend on validation or distraction from the outside, you accept what exists between you and the other. It is the same with self-love. You establish a relationship with this mysterious ‘other’ and you never turn away, no matter how ugly and real it gets.
Narcissism
Narcissism is a whole other concept, and it is seen as a personality disorder too, termed Narcissistic Personality Disorder. A narcissistic person loves themselves and only themselves. They are full of pride and have such vanity that to an extent that they even forget other people’s existence. This sense of prestige comes at a price and is vulnerable. Those with narcissistic disorders need constant reassurance from their peers, because they have to be the best, the most right, and the most competent; do everything their way; own everything; and control everyone.
Self-Love v/s Narcissism
Self-love is the unapologetic act of putting yourself first, and being proud and confident in your achievements. This is a healthy mentality, unlike narcissism.
Whereas, those who have high self-esteem and practice self-love don’t need recognition or congratulations for their accomplishments.
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